The Purpose of Flirting
Flirting is a form of playful, yet sexual behaviour. While some people like to engage in this act purely for fun, others tend to take it a lot more seriously. Flirting is all about self-confidence and not being afraid to take risks, this is especially true when flirting with someone new. Even though you may be nervous, by flirting with those you interact with will help you develop your self-confidence over time. As your self-confidence increases, the number and type of people that are attracted to you will improve.
The aim of flirting is to make the other person feel as though they are the most important person on the planet. It’s important that you shine the spotlight on whosoever you’re flirting with, it’s not about you. The ability to flirt can be used as an icebreaker, though it’s important that you’re social calibrated and able to read a room. If done wrong, flirting can come off as something slightly more sinister. If the one you’re flirting with doesn’t respond positively, it may be time for you to back off and move on.
When it’s not solely being used for fun, flirting is a great way to let someone know that you’re interested in them, romantically. Your flirtatious encounter may lead to a friendship, or romance, you simply have to pay attention and act accordingly. Here are a few tips that’ll help you flirt without things becoming awkward.
6 Ways to Improve Your Flirting
Making the First Move
The way you introduce yourself to someone will tell them a lot about you. When saying ‘hello,’ make sure that your voice is heard as it’ll give off a sense of confidence, even if you’re nervous. Over time, you’ll become less hesitant with your approach which will undoubtedly lead to people responding to you more positively. While you’re talking, try not to be too serious, you want the conversation to come off as natural, you don’t want the other person to feel as though you’re talking to them because your life is on the line.
Making Eye Contact
Keeping a smile on your face while conversing will help the other person feel at ease; it’s also vital that you be able to maintain eye contact. There’s a special transfer of energy that takes place while you stare into someone’s eyes. Provided that you’re getting along, strong eye contact can be a very arousing thing. Studies have found that a mutual, unbroken gaze tends to lead to an increase in passionate emotions.
Signs of Interest
- The friendly shoulder push/tap.
- Gently leaning in towards you.
- Staring at your lips.
- Laughing at your jokes, even the unfunny ones.
- Playing with their hair or being generally fidgety.
Make Flirting Your New Hobby
If you want to get better at flirting, practising it as often as you can is the best way to do so. Flirting isn’t much different to anything else in life that you’d like to get better at, as they say, ‘Practice makes perfect.’ Try not to worry so much about being the perfect flirter, instead, just focus on getting more comfortable during social interactions.
Be Active Rather Than Passive
Even if you’re the one who’s being flirted with, it doesn’t mean that you have to remain passive. Don’t be afraid to flirt back, taking the situation into your own hands will allow you to take control and steer the interaction in whatever way you please.
Be Okay with Leaving an Interaction
If you don’t feel as though the person you’re flirting with is welcoming of your approach, walk away. There’s nothing wrong with exiting an interacting, in fact, we recommend it. That being said, it may also be in your favour to walk away when things are going perfectly fine. It’s better to walk away on a high note rather than let the conversation run itself into the ground. Leaving on a high will make the person you were speaking with eager to meet you again.
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