Why You Should Move on After a Breakup
After breaking up with someone, it may be a while before you’re ready to start something new with someone else. How long this will take will vary from person to person. When you do decide to get into a new relationship, it’s important to make sure that you’ve truly left the past behind. If you’re someone who has chosen to stay friends with an ex, it’s vital that any romantic connections have been severed, if not, you run the risk of damaging your new relationship. If you haven’t been able to let go of your past, your new partner will probably sense this. If they don’t think your heart is 100% in it, your spirits will never be able to align, ensuring that your relationship fails before it even begins.
The Difficulty of Moving On
Moving on from the past can be hard, there’s no doubt about it. We’re humans, not robots, so it’s impossible to shut off our emotions at a moment’s notice. If you were really in love with someone, it can take a very long time for those wounds to heal, if they ever do. While it’s important to let the past be the past so that you can move on, you should never rush the healing process.
6 Signs That Show You’re Not Over Your Ex
- You think about your ex-partner more than you should.
- You blame your ex-partner for how things turned out.
- You have a desire to prove that you were worthy of their love, so you make changes to yourself that you think will impress them.
- You talk about your ex-partner with your friends, family members, and colleagues.
- You find it hard to not contact ex-partner.
- You maintain a sexual relationship with your ex-partner.
Not all of these symptoms have to be present to show that you’ve not been able to move on. Having any of these symptoms signifies that you’re not ready to let go of the past.
6 Things You Can Do to Get Over Your Ex
- Accept and let go of your feelings.
- Reduce/sever all contact with your ex-partner.
- Forgive your ex-partner for any wrongdoings.
- Continue to do the things that bring you joy.
- Find inner-peace.
- Believe in a better future.
The Power of Positive Thinking
While this last section ties very closely to the last two points in the list above, we thought it was important to shed more light on them. Finding inner-peace so that you can begin to believe in a better future is something that can be done via daily affirmations and the Law of Attraction. Affirmations are a fantastic way to feed your mind and your soul with words of wisdom, encouragement, and hope. These things will help spring the Law of Attraction into action, bringing you all the things you desire in life. For example, saying to yourself at the start of every day, ‘I am going to find love with someone who makes me happy,’ or ‘I am worthy of having a faithful partner,’ will help turn it into a reality. Just make sure to back your words up with action.
Love Readings on the Phone
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