Published 17/09/2022 • Updated 29/10/2025 by Joanne Jones

What Questions to Ask in a Love Reading

By Joanne Jones – Expert Psychic Advisor at Trusted Psychics.

What Questions to Ask in a Love Reading – Expert Psychic Guidance From Trusted Psychics

Love readings are some of the deepest and most emotional psychic readings. These specialist readers will use their natural intuition and psychic abilities, including angel or tarot cards, to explore with you the energy surrounding your love connections.

Relationships are such an important part of our lives, so naturally we want to better understand who we are about to meet and fall in love with, what to expect from a potential new partner, or how to improve a relationship that is in turmoil.

The first thing to do before any psychic guidance is to take time to think of the best questions to ask a psychic about love, which may help you in the situation you are in at present.

Psychics and tarot readers can often provide valuable advice that will help you identify patterns of behaviour that may help you not to repeat the same mistakes. They can sense the unspoken or subconscious emotions and give you accurate psychic advice from the spirit world that will help you with your personal relationship issues.

In this guide, I’m going to share the most powerful questions to ask in a psychic love reading as well as some professional tips on how to get the most out of your session. I’ll also be drawing on my 30 years’ experience as the Founder of Trusted Psychics to explain how the most accurate questions can open the door to authentic emotional healing and long-lasting love.

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What Is a Psychic Love Reading?

A psychic love reading is a tool for looking at the emotional energy behind your relationships and romantic life.

A love reading helps you understand how your feelings, hopes and fears connect to another person, or to the possibility of a relationship you’ve not yet experienced.

When you have a reading, the psychic will be focusing on your emotional energy – your “love vibration.” They’ll help you tune into how emotions flow between you and your partner, or perhaps how emotions move (or don’t move) in your own heart.

A love tarot reading is not so much about predicting an unchangeable future but rather giving you clarity and perspective on what is happening right now and what may come next.

🩷 Fact: Verified data compiled in 2025 by Trusted Psychics reveals that 95% of online psychic readings focus on questions about love and relationships.

Love is the number one reason why people seek out a psychic in the first place. We are all touched by matters of the heart in one way or another. Need to find new love? Repair a relationship? A broken heart? Seek guidance on a soulmate connection? 

When it comes to getting psychic insight into these situations, the difference in what you put out is what you get back. Learning how to ask the right questions in a psychic love reading is paramount to getting meaningful and in-depth insight.

Why Asking the Right Questions Matters in a Love Reading

The most important thing to know about psychic love readings is that the questions you ask determine the success of the reading.

The cards, the intuitive guidance, the energy work, all that is just part of the formula. The rest is up to you, the client: your openness, your curiosity, and your willingness to explore.

The clearer and positive your questions are, the easier it is for your reader to tune in and give you guidance that feels personal, relevant, and practical.

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Guides the Reading in the Right Direction

• Questions are the way you guide your psychic towards the areas of your love life that most need attention.
• Do you want to know how to get closer to your partner? Or how to rebuild trust after a breakup? Or are you simply curious about soulmate and twin flame connections? Asking a specific question will allow the psychic to focus on that energy in particular.
• Try to avoid general or vague questions and instead describe what you want to know, for example, “How can I communicate better with my partner?” or “What do I need to heal before I’m ready for new love?”

When you have specific questions to ask about your love and romance issues, you can guide your psychic toward the area of your love life that you are seeking answers for, that you may not feel comfortable speaking to your family and friends.

Opens the Door to Deeper Insight

• Asking open-ended questions (those starting with what, how or why) allows your reader to go deeper and find the underlying emotional truths.
• Being honest with your reader will help you use your own intuition to discover hidden feelings, repeating relationship patterns and the lessons that can help you to move forward.
• Instead of asking “Will I find love soon?” try asking “What emotional patterns keep repeating in my relationships?” or “What does my soulmate have to teach me?”

Empowers You With Clarity

• Thoughtful questions allow your reader to guide you with practical, clear insight and tools. It will help you see what you can control, what choices you can make and what steps you can take to improve your love life.
• Asking questions with a sense of curiosity and optimism will help bring you uplifting, healing insights.
• Fear-based questions or questions that come from a negative place create negative energy. If your questions are full of hope, your guidance will be clearer, more positive, and more compassionate.

You should always finish a romantic insight session feeling reassured and supported, with new confidence in yourself and in love.

Tools and Methods Used in a Psychic Love Reading

Psychic readers use many different tools and intuitive techniques to help you assess the energy of your love life. Each technique offers its own unique perspective, and many psychics use a few methods in combination during a single session.

Tarot Cards

Tarot is the ancient art of using card symbolism to gain clarity about your feelings, obstacles, and possibilities for love and romance. Tarot readings can illuminate what you already know, what is hidden from your awareness, and what choices you make to create a stronger, happier union.

Oracle or Angel Cards

Angel or Oracle cards can bring you into touch with higher guidance and gentle messages of healing and reassurance. Angel and Oracle readings can be especially helpful and healing after a breakup or if you have lost trust in love.

Intuitive or Empathic Readings

An intuitive reading allows the psychic to sense and interpret energy directly, with no cards involved. An empathic reader has a special ability to tune in to the unspoken emotions and interactional patterns between you and your partner, revealing deeper insights and intentions.

Astrology or Numerology

Astrology and numerology can be used to uncover the strengths, challenges, and natural rhythm of your emotional connection. These wisdom traditions can reveal areas of strong affinity and difficulty as well as the natural flow of your partnership.

Pendulum and Energy Work

A pendulum or light energy reading can help identify emotional blocks and areas of imbalance in your life. This type of reading can be a quick and easy way to clarify a decision or course of action, whether to let go, hold on, or focus on healing.

Each of these tools can be a mirror for your heart, helping you to reflect on the emotions and energies that may be difficult to verbalise. The most powerful ingredient in any psychic love reading is the connection between you and your psychic, which is based on trust, vulnerability, and a mutual intention for insight and healing.

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General Questions to Ask in a Love Reading ♡

If you’re at a loss for what to ask, or if this is your first time reading, start by inquiring about the energy of your love life. The best questions to ask a psychic about love help your psychic zero in on the general love energy in your life. They are also general, open-ended, and great for first-time psychic love readings.

• What lessons can the spirit world teach me?
• Are there any toxic patterns I need to change in my relationship?
• How can I find someone who will genuinely love me?
• What energies surround my love life right now?

Questions About a Current Relationship

Love readings are a great resource if you are in a relationship and want to better understand it. The right questions can help you see what’s going on between you and your partner, where it needs work, and how to approach things with attentiveness.

• What is the current state of my relationship?

This question gets you a realistic picture of how you’re doing with your partner. Will this relationship be emotionally fulfilling?

• What challenges are affecting us right now?

Troubles and difficulties are par for the course when it comes to relationships. Ask this question to identify outside stressors or internal struggles that are putting a wedge between you and your partner.

• How can we strengthen our bond?

After understanding the nature of the problem, it’s time to look for a solution. The question above can help you figure out what actions to take, what changes to make, or how to improve your communication skills with your partner so you can become even closer.

✔️ Why These Questions Work

Love questions should eliminate guesswork and increase understanding. The questions above help you gain perspective on your current situation and see where your relationship stands. The more in tune you are with your intuition and emotions, the more likely you are to tackle challenges in a loving way.

Questions About a Partner’s Feelings or Intentions

These questions to ask in a relationship psychic reading help you uncover the emotional truth in your partner’s heart and intentions, giving you clarity and peace of mind.

• How does my partner truly feel about me? Clarifies their real emotions, including answers on intimacy, which may not always be openly expressed.
• What are my partner’s long-term intentions? Helps you understand if they’re serious about commitment or just living in the moment.
• Is my partner being fully honest with me? Important for better communication, building trust and spotting red flags.
• What do I mean to my partner on a deeper level? Reveals your value in their life beyond surface-level attraction.
• What is holding my partner back from expressing more? Shows emotional blocks or fears around emotional intimacy that often cause conflicts, which need attention.

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Questions About Past Relationships

These questions guide you in healing, letting go, and understanding how the past influences your present love life.

• What lessons should I take from my past relationships? Helps you believe in your own intuition and avoid repeating old mistakes.
• Am I still carrying emotional baggage? Identifies unresolved wounds and anxiety that may be affecting your current or future love life.
• Why did certain relationships not work out? Guides you on your healing process, brings closure and understanding of patterns.
• How have past experiences shaped my expectations in love? Reveals unconscious beliefs influencing your choices.
• What do I need to release to move forward freely? Encourages healing and emotional freedom.

Questions to Ask a Psychic About Love Compatibility

These questions give clarity on future possibilities and prepare you for healthier relationships.

• What should I know about love coming into my life? Provides information about when and what type of connection to expect.
• Am I ready to welcome a new relationship? Helps you assess your current emotional state.
• What qualities should I look for in a future partner? Guiding you to magnetise a partner with similar values. magnetise
• What potential challenges may come with new love? Prepares you to face and manage obstacles before they manifest.
• How can I align myself with the love I desire? Leads you to focus on personal growth and attract love with intention.

Questions About Soulmates and Twin Flames

Twin Flame and soulmate readings explore spiritual connections that go beyond ordinary love.

• Have I already met my soulmate? Helps you recognise if someone in your life is the destined partner.
• What role does my twin flame play in my journey? Explains the purpose of this intense connection.
• How can I attract my soulmate into my life? Guides you in opening up to the right kind of energy.
• What lessons am I meant to learn from my soulmate/twin flame? Provides clarity on the spiritual growth this bond brings.
• How will I recognise my soulmate when we meet? Gives reassurance and signs to watch for.

🩷 Fact: A survey conducted in 2024 by Trusted Psychics UK revealed that 72% of customers who booked twin flame readings received a psychic reading that clarified their recurring emotional patterns within 3 sessions.

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Questions to Ask About Healing and Self-Love

Before and during love, self-love is essential. These questions help you focus inward for stronger emotional balance.

• What is blocking me from feeling loved? Identifies insecurities that need healing.
• How can I heal from a past breakup? Encourages closure and personal growth.
• How do I learn to trust my partner? Sets the foundation for attracting fulfilling love.

Questions to Avoid in a Love Reading

• When exactly will I meet my soulmate?

While a psychic love reading can help you get a sense of timing, love obsessives tend to become disappointed when they get a specific date. The Law of Attraction, energy, free will, and life choices can all shift timelines, so it’s better to inquire about how to prepare for love.

• Where is my partner right now?

Constantly checking the whereabouts of a loved one can become a form of privacy violation. Underlying trust issues need to be resolved to move forward in the relationship.

• Will my partner definitely cheat or leave me?

Love readings cannot determine a negative fixed outcome because free will and personal choices matter in relationships. It would be better to ask the reader about your relationship’s love dynamics and what you can do to build trust.

• Can you guarantee my ex will come back?

No reader can guarantee a fixed outcome because love relationships are about two people with free will. Instead, ask if the reader sees a reconnection and what you can do to heal or move on.

• Tell me everything about my future love life.

Generic questions usually lead to vague answers. Try being more specific (e.g. about blocks, lessons, and next steps) to get precise and useful information.

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Why Choose Trusted Psychics for Your Love Reading

When you’re seeking answers about love, relationships, or life, you deserve readers who are accurate, compassionate, and genuinely affordable, which is exactly why thousands of people turn to Trusted Psychics, the UK’s best psychics, for clear, insightful and affordable psychic readings.

Trusted Psychics has been setting the standard in psychic accuracy, customer service, and affordability for over 30 years. By combining professional standards with intuitive insight, our readers provide thousands of clients throughout the UK and worldwide with clear, empowering readings every day.

• Trusted by Thousands of Clients for Over 30 Years: Trusted Psychics has been helping clients with love, life, and spiritual questions for over three decades. Over the years, we’ve guided hundreds of thousands of satisfied customers through every stage of their life journey, from heartbreaking loss to new beginnings. 
• Trusted Psychics Verified Readers: Verified for accuracy, empathy, and spiritual ethics, so you always receive the genuine, clear insight you need.
• Experts in Love and Relationship Readings: One of the most common and emotional reasons that people seek a psychic reading is to ask questions about love and relationships. It’s why we work with a hand-picked team of relationship and love specialists trained in tarot, clairvoyance, astrology, numerology, and intuitive life coaching. 
• The Trusted Psychics Fair Pricing Policy: High quality and accuracy don’t have to cost a fortune. We believe that all people should have access to spiritual guidance, no matter their budget. Trusted Psychics Fair Pricing Policy ensures our customers will always receive affordable psychic readings with the UK’s top live psychics with no hidden costs. Trusted Psychics is your one-stop shop for professional, caring advice from the UK’s best psychics, at prices that are really affordable.
• 24/7 Readings When You Need Them Most: Life has a way of bringing challenges at the most inconvenient times. Fortunately, Trusted Psychics is here for you 24/7, ready to support you with online and phone readings. When you need a caring, professional psychic to share your fears, hopes and uncertainties, we’re always here. For the questions that keep you up at night, a sudden breakup, or just moments of general uncertainty, help is always just a phone call or message away.
• 5 Star Customer Ratings: Over the years, we’ve received thousands of reviews on Google, Trustpilot and many other platforms. Words like “life-changing,” “uncannily accurate”, and “incredible comfort in a hard time” are all things our long-term customers say about Trusted Psychics. Trusted Psychics continues to be rated “Excellent” by our clients, year after year.

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“I’ve had a few readings through Trusted Psychics over the years, and they’ve all been spot on. What I like the most is that it’s so much cheaper than other psychic sites, but the quality of the readings is amazing. My reader helped me gain clarity around my partner’s behaviour, and it changed my perspective on our relationship completely.” Chloe R. – Birmingham

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“I was sceptical about the whole idea of the spirit world having a psychic love reading, but Trusted Psychics have changed my mind. The reader was calm, clear, and SO accurate on things she couldn’t possibly have known. The price was low, and I got real answers that gave me peace. I would 100% recommend them.” James L. – Edinburgh

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FAQs: Questions About Love Readings

What’s the Best Question to Ask in a Love Reading?

The best type of questions are open-ended and focus on guidance and clarity, such as “What can I do to improve my relationship?” or “What lessons should I learn in love right now?” Avoid simple yes/no questions to get the most out of a reading.

Can Psychics Tell If Someone Loves You?

A good psychic can tune in to your energy and sense whether someone’s feelings are true. While it may not be a replacement for talking to your partner, a love reading can often detect if there are hidden emotions or intentions behind what they say or don’t say.

Can Tarot Tell You If Your Partner Is Cheating?

Tarot can help if you’re wondering if your partner is cheating. Cards may reveal patterns of secrecy, dishonesty, and emotional distance, suggesting a lack of fidelity. Tarot readings can uncover the truth behind your suspicions and give guidance rather than simple “yes” or “no" answers.

Can a Love Reading Predict the Future of My Relationship?

A relationship reading can help you see potential paths for your relationship’s future. While the future is not set in stone, the reading can show how the current energy and actions may influence what’s to come. Remember, it’s only a glimpse, and you’re free to choose your own path.

Should I Ask About My Ex in a Relationship Reading?

Yes, but frame it constructively. Avoid direct questions like “Will my ex come back?” Instead, ask, “What lessons can I learn from my past relationship?” A reading can bring clarity and help you heal, showing how the past is influencing your present.

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About the Author: Joanne Jones is a highly recommended expert psychic advisor at Trusted Psychics, specialising in love, soulmate, and twin flame readings. A 30-year intuitive veteran, Joanne is well known for her warm and compassionate approach, which has brought clarity and confidence to the relationships of thousands of customers worldwide.

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